Develop Lasting Confidence to Accelerate Your Growth in Leadership
Hey my dear,
Do you put your heart into your work but lie awake in bed at night anxious about an upcoming meeting, doubtful you can handle the conversation you need to have or sensing the reluctance to take on a new project?
Are you wracked with a constant gnawing feeling that somehow you just aren't doing it right? Do you feel like you are in the wrong position? It's as if perhaps they didn't realize you don't have the proper credentials, you lack enough experience, or you fall short on the specific skills to handle things.
Here's the thing this lack of confidence is not helping you or your leadership!
Do you put your heart into your work but lie awake in bed at night anxious about an upcoming meeting, doubtful you can handle the conversation you need to have or sensing the reluctance to take on a new project?
Are you wracked with a constant gnawing feeling that somehow you just aren't doing it right? Do you feel like you are in the wrong position? It's as if perhaps they didn't realize you don't have the proper credentials, you lack enough experience, or you fall short on the specific skills to handle things.
Here's the thing this lack of confidence is not helping you or your leadership!
Not only does this pervasive fear hold you back,
but your indecisiveness also makes your team more frustrated with you.
but your indecisiveness also makes your team more frustrated with you.
Doubting yourself and your abilities feed other's distrust in you.
When you are apprehensive, afraid or anxious, others question your competence.
Your reluctance to deal with tough situations demonstrates to others a lack of power.
When you are apprehensive, afraid or anxious, others question your competence.
Your reluctance to deal with tough situations demonstrates to others a lack of power.
A lack of confidence in yourself leads to a lack of respect from the people around you!
If you don't do anything about this lack of confidence, it gets worse! Now, you hold back even more. You hesitate because last time you got burned and it hurt! So why bother. Just do your job. Don't rock the boat. Stay low, so you don't get attacked again.
Before you know it, you resent certain people in your life. You hate your job. Your health suffers. So does your marriage, parenting and what was left of your social life. I know. I've been there. Overweight, on antidepressants and hating heading to the office every day was no way to live. But I didn't know how to get out of the trap.
Don't let this happen to you. Don't get to the point where your employees are running the show instead of you. I did it, and it sucked!
Sitting across the table from my employee, Cindy, I felt the lack of confidence big time during a particularly challenging time in our organization. I vividly remember vibrating. I was sooooo angry, embarrassed and outraged. I also felt incredibly small when this happened:
Before you know it, you resent certain people in your life. You hate your job. Your health suffers. So does your marriage, parenting and what was left of your social life. I know. I've been there. Overweight, on antidepressants and hating heading to the office every day was no way to live. But I didn't know how to get out of the trap.
Don't let this happen to you. Don't get to the point where your employees are running the show instead of you. I did it, and it sucked!
Sitting across the table from my employee, Cindy, I felt the lack of confidence big time during a particularly challenging time in our organization. I vividly remember vibrating. I was sooooo angry, embarrassed and outraged. I also felt incredibly small when this happened:
Cindy leaned across the table, pointed her index finger, then poked me in the chest as said,
You can't handle leadership!
You can't handle leadership!
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Ok, maybe she didn't actually do that...but it felt like it! Her questions about my decisions, the conversations she was having with others behind my back, and the look on her face all were very clear.
Neither did I!
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Leadership Development Coach,
KATHY ARCHER
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Fast forward 2 years. Our team was going through another especially arduous time. Thankfully, Cindy was long gone.
I, however, was still there! What was even more exciting was that my team was strong.
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The shifts started when I began to believe in myself.
A transformation of sorts came for me when I grew my confidence. It can happen to you as well!
When you believe in yourself, in your ability to learn and grow, and trust that you can develop into a leader you will be proud of, you start to live into that vision. It begins with believing, trusting and then getting courageous and doing the work.
When you believe in yourself, in your ability to learn and grow, and trust that you can develop into a leader you will be proud of, you start to live into that vision. It begins with believing, trusting and then getting courageous and doing the work.
See, what most people do, though, is they wait and wish for things to get better.
Most people believe confidence an out-there thing. They think their lack of confidence comes from stuff out of their control. Most people believe they have to wait for something else to change.
- When that person leaves.
- If my boss would just smarten up.
- As soon as this project is over and things slow down
Most people believe confidence an out-there thing. They think their lack of confidence comes from stuff out of their control. Most people believe they have to wait for something else to change.
Don't be most people!
Stop waiting.
Start taking action.
Stop waiting.
Start taking action.
If you wait for things to change then, nothing will change.
It's up to you!
It's up to you!
Imagine a different scenario...
Envision walking into the office feeling confident you can handle whatever comes up.
You know that there will be a difficult conversation you need to have, a phone call that might not go quite the way you want and a lengthy to-do list. Despite all of that facing you in the upcoming 8 hours, you feel a bit of excitement. You approach it with an edge of eagerness because you know that you can handle those challenges.
You know that there will be a difficult conversation you need to have, a phone call that might not go quite the way you want and a lengthy to-do list. Despite all of that facing you in the upcoming 8 hours, you feel a bit of excitement. You approach it with an edge of eagerness because you know that you can handle those challenges.
- Notice that you are aware you feel courageous as you approach the conversation. That courage comes from knowing that both you and the other person are deeply committed to why it's so important to take on a difficult conversation.
- You recognize that even if the approaching phone call doesn't quite go the way you hope, it will take you another step closer to figuring out a solution for your clients.
- You see the massive to-do list as your mission but can identify which things need focus on today and let go of the remainder.
Imagine feeling confident to do your job!
You can feel that level of confidence when you learn to MASTER YOUR CONFIDENCE. Let’s face it. Leadership has its challenges. When you get knocked down, you need a reliable system to help you regain your footing and confidence. I want to teach you that system. You learn that system in MASTERING CONFIDENCE.
Inside the pages of MASTERING CONFIDENCE, you will discover a structure that lets you bounce back when you falter. In truth, you already have this tool; you just need to uncover it. In MASTERING CONFIDENCE, you will learn to awaken your Inner Guidance System and boost your confidence, giving you the strength to get through challenging meetings and difficult conversations. When you use your Inner Guidance System, you’ll not only feel more confident, you will begin to lead with purpose. Finding yourself back in control, you can once again enjoy leadership and life.
Inside the pages of MASTERING CONFIDENCE, you will discover a structure that lets you bounce back when you falter. In truth, you already have this tool; you just need to uncover it. In MASTERING CONFIDENCE, you will learn to awaken your Inner Guidance System and boost your confidence, giving you the strength to get through challenging meetings and difficult conversations. When you use your Inner Guidance System, you’ll not only feel more confident, you will begin to lead with purpose. Finding yourself back in control, you can once again enjoy leadership and life.
Grow Your Confidence To Lead
Many women leaders have purchased MASTERING CONFIDENCE but have not yet done the inner work to apply the system in their lives. Don't be one of those women. Instead, intensively study the concepts and do the inner work to grow your confidence. You can do that by joining the MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE.
Accelerate your learning: Join the MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE
Mastering Confidence Intensive
If you want to move into that vision of yourself as a confident leader, you need to do the work to MASTER YOUR CONFIDENCE.
What if you had a guide on your journey?
I'm here to help you! The MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE will guide you through the steps of the Inner Guidance Cycle, giving you that desired confidence. By using these tools, again and again, you'll MASTER YOUR CONFIDENCE.
In the MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE, I'll do more than show you how to do this. I will walk you through it, pick you up when you fall down and point you in the right direction as many times as you need it!
In the MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE, I'll do more than show you how to do this. I will walk you through it, pick you up when you fall down and point you in the right direction as many times as you need it!
The Details:
- The MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE is 8 - weeks in length
- Each week, you will be guided in real-time through the online course included in the MASTERING CONFIDENCE book.
- You will create a confidence framework that will help you enhance your confidence in a specific area.
- You will have the opportunity to connect with me live each week where I further explain the concepts, offering ideas and suggestions of how you can apply it in your leadership and your life.
- You can submit ahead of time or ask questions on the live Q/A portion of the live call
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- You will receive extra resources to guide you along
- You will be invited to join a short-term private Facebook page for members of MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE to share your insights, questions, and learning.
- What this means is that after MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE is over, this private group will close.
- That will provide you with a safer, more intimate and private place to share with only the ladies in the course, knowing full well your comments with be deleted within a few weeks.
- You can then gauge your level of comfort with who else is in the program and perhaps share a bit more courageously in service of growing your confidence and supporting other ladies.
- I'll be in the Facebook group encouraging you and asking you to answer questions to get you thinking and growing even more!
- You will receive email reminders to help you stay on track and connected. They will inspire and motivate you to work through the lessons.
You will learn to apply a system you can use again and again to MASTER YOUR CONFIDENCE!
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Let these ladies convince you that you are worth it!
The material in this course is "real."
The Mastering Confidence Intensive course is easy to follow. The material is "real." I recognized situations in my career as I took in the lectures. I found both the bite-sized videos and the exercises to be so meaningful to me.
I LOVED the secret Facebook group
The Mastering Confidence Intensive course inspired me so much. I LOVED the secret Facebook group. It opened the ladies up to share and ask questions, and the interactive component was a great asset! It allowed for self-reflection, but also to see other's experiences. This connection was great because sometimes it's easy to feel alone and quite often it was "me too."
I am more engaged in my life now!
As a result of being involved in the Mastering Confidence Intensive course, I notice that suddenly I am more engaged, talking, commenting on media(filling in this) and feeling good about what I am doing. I am not worrying about negatives outcomes. I will be in the middle of engaging (typing, writing, talking) & will suddenly stop & and think; Wait, this is me! And I feel great.
It's a confidence boost everybody deserves!!!
The Mastering Confidence Intensive course helped me to build confidence in a tangible way. Sometimes it's easy to get caught up in circles that go nowhere except around. This course offered real ways to stop going around and move along the road. The idea of pause, ponder, pivot and proceed is so easy to remember in an instant.
It's time to MASTER YOUR CONFIDENCE
You, my dear, have a decision to make now!
Confidence is an inner game. Nothing will change until you change it. It begins with you believing in yourself.
You can keep doing what you've been doing and feeling crappy at the end of the day. Or, you can join a group of other women leaders determined to MASTER THEIR CONFIDENCE and grow themselves and their team.
On July 12th, be one of those women. Join the MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE and change your leadership and your life!
You can keep doing what you've been doing and feeling crappy at the end of the day. Or, you can join a group of other women leaders determined to MASTER THEIR CONFIDENCE and grow themselves and their team.
On July 12th, be one of those women. Join the MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE and change your leadership and your life!
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The MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE run periodically as part of
The Training Library --> Find out more here The MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE is included for members! |
Make the choice that will save your leadership & your life!
Join the MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE today!
Join the MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE today!
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Are you the right lady for the program?
If you said yes to any of these, you are a perfect fit for the MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE |
Some other things you may want to know
- You will need to get the book MASTERING CONFIDENCE.
- The live calls will be recorded in case you can't attend at the time they are on. I'll post a link for you to listen to them on the Facebook page
- The live calls will be recorded in case you can't attend at the time they are on. I'll post a link for you to listen to them on the Facebook page
- How is this different than the free program in the MASTERING CONFIDENCE book?
- This program is waaaay more intense and interactive!
- The free program is self-paced, with limited opportunity for interaction with me or others.
- In truth, our best learning happens in contact with others. It's the conversations, examples and digging together that helps us put our knowledge into practice.
- The MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE provided you with 1-1 personalized coaching! You don't get that from a book :-)
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The MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE run periodically as part of
The Training Library --> Find out more here The MASTERING CONFIDENCE INTENSIVE is included for members! |
Develop Lasting Confidence to Accelerate Your Growth in Leadership
