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4 quick self-care hacks for the hurried woman

7/10/2015

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No time for a headache? Do you push away hunger pains because you're too busy to eat? Maybe you don't even notice the tightness building in your muscles as you work away on your computer hour after hour.  Ignoring the twinges that your body sends to you works momentarily, but left unchecked will treat you to some nasty surprises down the road. 
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My wake up call
A couple of years ago, I was Googling: how to heal cold sores, the day before I was heading out to speak at a large conference. My mouth was so full of the blisters that I had trouble eating. I wasn't sure how I was going to, speak for several hours. The reason my mouth made me want to cry each time I tried to eat something was undoubtedly stress. 

My body was breaking down, and I wasn’t listening
I was frantic about the work I had on my plate. I was anxious about the upcoming travel and was feeling the pressure of performing. My body needed to rest and renew, but I wouldn’t let it. Pushing through the pain my body went from fatigue to a pounding headache. When I ignored that too, my mouth broke out in patches of sores. I was a mess!

I had a history of disregarding the impacts of stress on my body 
I wish I could say that was the only time I ignored my body. Sadly, I can think of other times that I ended up with a bad cold, a back that was in so much pain I could barely walk or shoulders that were rock hard causing neck pain. The result of not listening to my body has triggered much pain and damage over the years.  Ignoring my body's cries for rest and renewal instigated many trips to the doctor, naturopath, chiropractor, counselor, and physiotherapist. I now know, many of those visits could have been avoided had I taken better care of myself. 

Self-care means you pre-empt trips to the doctor
Self-care is the care of yourself, without medical or other professional consultation. Too many of us wait until we can bear the pain no longer before we head to the specialist. Instead, we need to prevent much of the mayhem by doing small bits of self-care before we are over the edge.

I have learned to do tiny moments of self-care that will prevent the need for medical attention. I have absorbed to lessons provided to me and now listen to my body and respond, all day long. When I put off daily self-care, I regret it. We can’t wait until we need intervention. Prevent the serious cost to your body. Practice self-care constantly in small doses.

Four 3-minute self-care hacks to prevent the need for professional intervention
1)    Eat an apple a day 
The adage is true, an apple a day, does keep the doctor away. Simply eat an apple a day and see what happens. Here is my guess what will happen when you do. 
  • You’ll immediately feel better because you gave back to your body.
  • Buying apples will take you to the produce section of the grocery store where you will find yourself buying other healthy things.
  • Eating the apple will support you to sidestep unhealthy snacks in the coffee room.
  • The fibre in the apple will benefit your digestive system.
  • The vitamins will nourish your body better than any prescription ever could.
2)    Set a timer on your phone three times daily reminding you to take three deep breaths
We spend most of our time shallow breathing. The more stress we feel, the worse it gets.

Deep breaths, the kind that goes all the way down to your tippy toes, are the ones that reduce the effects of stress. Those slow deep breaths bring you back to the present moment helping with mindfulness. Immediately when you breathe deep, you will feel a wave of relaxation come over your body and a tiny bit of healing taking place.

Deep breathing can be in the privacy of your office or in the middle of a meeting. Practice doing them quietly and inconspicuously and feel the secret elixir for getting through a less than stellar meeting. 
3)    Buy an appealing water bottle that you want to carry around
Let’s be honest, us women love to look good. We like carrying in a stylish purse and bag to a meeting.  We also like to feel good. There is a cozy feeling when you drink coffee out of your favourite mug. The same is true for water bottles.

Having the right drinking vessel can make you feel styling and wholesome. There are tons of varieties out there, from blingy pink bottles to sleek stainless canteens. Find a water container or even two that speak to you.  Get in the habit of carrying them around and more importantly, drinking from them.

Increased water will not only help to give you a mini cleanse daily but will get you up moving to the bathroom which prevents you from sitting way too long. 
4)    Pray
As you are travelling to work, say a few words to whatever spiritual power you have. Thank them for the good in your life expressing gratitude. Ask for assistance and support with whatever challenges are being presented to you now. 
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One of the biggest things missing in our lives is a connection to spirit. The presence of a higher power in our lives gives us hope and support to manage all that is going on. Faith is the most powerful medicine that exists.
​The point to self-care is rest and renewal
We need to give our body a break, and we need to give back to what we've drained from it. When you are struggling during the day and feeling the weight of the world on you, ask yourself the following question: "What can I do in this particular moment to rest for a minute or renew for a minute?"

It only takes a minute that could save you the 5 hour trip to the doctor, or life long medical problem that you allowed to creep up on you.  
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